. : MaGiCLaND : .

2 years back, I learnt a theory from a friend, which I am still reminding myself about it from time to time...

NEVER assume that you have fallen for someone when you are sad... That would only mean that you have fallen for the happiness that you might not have while you are sad... Imagine, when you are feeling negative, and there comes some positives, that would turn you into BREAK EVEN... You might not be HAPPY afterall, only not sad anymore...

You are in love, when you are happier eventhough you are happy when you are alone, you are not dependent on anyone for your happiness...

But, things get harder when you are indenpende enough, you tend to expect more as you need more reasons to be happier...

Example, you are not independent, and thus you are happy when there is someone to be with you to go shopping, movie, dining... You are independent, and you enjoy doing thins alone where you do not need company, NOW, this person has to be able to give more than just these to make you happier...

Life is getting tougher...

The YOU, might not be YOU, but it must be ME...